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Want a taste?
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We do.
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Thank you.
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Whose birthday is it?
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It's my mother's birthday,
Grandma Jenny's.
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How old would she
be if she was still alive?
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Seventy-five.
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Did she teach you
how to make this cake?
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Yes, and now I'm teaching you.
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Although, it'll be a few years
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before you can
make it by yourself.
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But when we learn
how to make this cake,
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we could teach Savannah.
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(laughs) That's right.
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And then you get
married and have children,
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you can teach your children
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how to make Grandma
Jenny's chocolate cake.
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Who taught her how to make it?
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I don't know. Probably her
mother, my grandmother
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and your great-grandmother.
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Or maybe she just
learned how all by herself.
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Maybe.
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I'm going out with Vincent.
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Oh, oh, not tonight.
Tonight is not a good night.
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We're having a family dinner.
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Well, I don't know if
I'll be home by then.
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We're going to a
movie this afternoon,
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and then we're hanging out.
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No, it wasn't a question.
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What I'm saying is I want you
to be home for dinner tonight.
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You and Vincent
went out last night.
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So?
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So...
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so spending one night a
week with Vincent is enough.
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Well, you should
have told me that
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before I told him
I could go out.
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Oh, should I have done that,
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or should you have
asked if you could go out?
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Well, I didn't know I
was supposed to ask.
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I can date; I'm dating.
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You always need to ask
every time you want to go out.
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And if you had asked
me, I would have told you
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that tonight is not a
good night to go out.
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What's the big
deal about tonight?
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SAM: It's Grandma
Jenny's birthday.
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We're having a party
to remember her.
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And I want everyone to be here.
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And I think one date a
week is enough for right now.
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Or maybe even too much.
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Hey, you want to get out
with me and Savannah
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for a little while?
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I wanna to go down
to the Promenade
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and just walk around,
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get out of the house.
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You doing anything?
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Uh, no, I could
do that, I guess,
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if Mom doesn't need us around
to help out for the big dinner
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for Grandma Jenny.
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Oh, well, that's one
reason I wanna get out.
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I want to get some flowers,
set the table up really special.
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It's not like Grandma
Jenny is gonna know.
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Well, one: we don't
know that she won't,
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and I kind of
like to think of her
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as smiling down
on us from heaven,
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she and Grandpa, and two:
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what's with the attitude?
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Even if you don't think Grandma
Jenny will know anything about it,
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you know Mom will. (phone rings)
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And if this is what she
wants to do for her mother,
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then she wants to do it, so...
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So fine, I'll go grab my purse.
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ANNIE: Ruthie, it's Vincent!
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Hey, there.
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Hi.
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Hi.
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So, are you ready?
I'll come pick you up.
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Sure. Could you do me a favor?
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Lucy wants to walk around
the Promenade with Savannah,
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and she needs my help.
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So, you could just meet me
there by the bookstore around 4:00.
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We could leave from there.
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Sure, but listen, I
checked the movies,
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and it's the same thing
that was playing last night.
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So do you wanna go to
the pool hall or something?
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Maybe play some pool?
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You play pool, don't you?
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Of course. I'm not
that good, but I play.
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All right then, uh,
we'll play some pool
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and get a burger or
something and, and talk.
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Sounds great.
I'll see you there.
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♪ 7th Heaven ♪
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♪ When I see their happy faces ♪
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♪ Smiling back at me ♪
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♪ 7th Heaven ♪
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♪ I know there's
no greater feeling ♪
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♪ Than the love of family ♪
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♪ Where can you go ♪
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♪ When the world
don't treat you right? ♪
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♪ The answer is home ♪
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♪ That's the one
place that you'll find ♪
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♪ 7th Heaven ♪
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♪ Mmm, 7th Heaven ♪
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♪ 7th Heaven. ♪
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(barks)
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♪ ♪
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♪ ♪
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Ah, hi. Um, I'm Marie Wagner.
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I called earlier.
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Yeah, please come in.
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I'm, uh, trying to
surprise my wife
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by making a collage
of her mother.
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It would have been her,
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her 75th birthday today.
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Uh, please,
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sit down.
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I, I, oh guess I should
have mentioned this is
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really a happy occasion.
We loved Jenny.
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We want to share our
memories of her with our children
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as a way of honoring
her. Are you okay?
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No, you're not okay.
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You came to see me
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because you're having a
problem with your mother.
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I-I-I feel badly
asking for your help.
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My, my mother's never
even been to this church.
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I mean, this is the church
in her neighborhood.
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But I just didn't know
where else to turn.
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It doesn't matter
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if you and your mother
are church members.
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The church is here.
I'm here for everyone.
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How can I help?
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I'm supposed to fly
back to Texas tomorrow.
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That's where I live.
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I keep taking time off
from work to come here
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and take care of my mother.
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My mother's always
been very independent,
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but over the last three
months, her health has declined
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and she's just so depressed.
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I-I can't get her
out of her pajamas.
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I can't get her
out of her recliner.
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The doctor just
says it's old age.
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She has high blood pressure
and respiratory problems.
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She takes nine
different medications,
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including her favorite antacid,
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which she refuses to give
up whether she needs it or not.
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I just...
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I can't, um, keep
flying back and forth
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to take care of her.
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I'm gonna lose my job.
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My, my boss is not
very sympathetic.
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I mean, children he understands,
you know, he has children,
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but his mother's fine,
so he doesn't get it.
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He suggests that I
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put her in a nursing home.
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Oh, does he?
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Maybe that's the best thing.
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What does your mother say?
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I haven't approached her yet.
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That's kind of why
I need your help.
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She's out in the car.
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Oh, well, then why
don't you bring her up?
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I'd love to meet her.
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Okay, thank you. Sure.
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Oh, she is so cute.
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Oh, Savannah,
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you are so cute!
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What were Grandma
Jenny's favorite flowers?
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Hydrangeas, right?
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Yeah, but I mean, if you can't
find them, we can use anything.
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No, I'll find hydrangeas.
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Anything else
you want us to get?
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Oh, Ruthie's coming with me.
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Oh, I didn't know.
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Good. How did
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everything go with Vincent?
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Things went fine.
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All right, well,
I'll see you later.
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Oh, and you want us
to take the boys with us,
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get them out of your
way for a little while?
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Oh, no, thanks.
They're not in my way.
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Bye, pinky.
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(phone rings)
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Kinkirk.
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No, it's too soon.
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When we move.
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It's been months.
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So?
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I wanna see my niece.
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There's no room.
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We're still at the Camdens'.
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What about the apartment?
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What about the apartment?
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Martin's living in the
garage apartment.
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Not this weekend.
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This weekend, he's at
a baseball tournament.
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How do you know?
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You told me.
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When? Last time I talked to you.
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That wasn't an invitation
for you to come out here.
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I don't think you
should see the baby
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before Mom sees the baby.
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Why not? Maybe she
doesn't want to see her.
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What?!
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Maybe Mom does want
anyone calling her "Grandma"
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in front of Frank, you know
her husband, our stepdad?
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I know who Frank is,
and he's not our stepdad,
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and Savannah can't talk yet.
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She's not gonna be
calling anyone anything.
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I meant you and Lucy.
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Maybe she doesn't want
you two calling her "Grandma"
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in front of Frank.
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Because?
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Because he's
younger than she is.
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Well, if that's the problem,
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then Mom should just
leave Frank at home.
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Or it could be that
she's just not that happy
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about being a grandma.
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Yes, she is. I talk
to her all the time,
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and she's sent Savannah
tons of stuff. You're crazy.
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Look, all I know is I'm
excited about being an uncle,
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I wanna to see the baby.
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I'll be there in an hour.
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It's a four-and-a-half
hour flight.
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Yeah, I know. I just got here.
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I'm jumping in a taxi.
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(sighs)
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(dialing tones)
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(distant answering
machine beeps)
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Hi, Mom, it's Kevin.
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I want you to know that
Ben's on his way out here.
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I really wanted you to be
the first one to see the baby,
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but he didn't ask.
He just showed up.
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So anyway, I hope you
can make it out here soon
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with, um, Frank.
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Okay, tell him I
said hi. See ya.
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I don't know why she thinks
she has to come here all the time
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and take care of me.
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It is nice, though, that
she cares so much.
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Oh, she cares too much.
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Marie says that you and her
dad put her through college.
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She has her MBA, right?
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You must be very proud of her.
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Oh, I am.
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She's a smart
girl, got a good job.
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Works for an oil
company. Hates it.
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Well, still, good
jobs are hard to get.
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So are mothers.
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So who does
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take care of you
when she's not here?
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I do.
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How do you get to the doctor?
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A driver and a nurse.
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And groceries?
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They deliver.
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I order on my computer.
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Marie taught me how.
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Oh, terrific.
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But then when the
groceries get there,
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I guess you have to cook.
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Not really.
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Restaurants deliver, you know.
261
00:11:16,576 --> 00:11:20,227
You have someone to
help with the cleaning,
262
00:11:20,263 --> 00:11:21,529
laundry, those kinds of thing?
263
00:11:21,581 --> 00:11:22,913
Housekeeper.
264
00:11:22,949 --> 00:11:25,349
She comes around in
the mornings, you know,
265
00:11:25,385 --> 00:11:28,252
just to make sure
I'm still breathing
266
00:11:28,288 --> 00:11:30,087
and to make up the bed.
267
00:11:32,008 --> 00:11:35,143
It sounds like
Marie is making sure
268
00:11:35,178 --> 00:11:37,078
you have everything you need.
269
00:11:37,130 --> 00:11:38,997
Oh, she's sure doing that.
270
00:11:39,032 --> 00:11:42,566
Lots of people in
my life I've never met
271
00:11:42,602 --> 00:11:45,152
doing stuff I could
do for myself.
272
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:47,150
And Marie pays for it all.
273
00:11:47,174 --> 00:11:50,475
The driver, the
nurse, the groceries,
274
00:11:50,510 --> 00:11:53,077
the restaurants,
the housekeeper.
275
00:11:53,112 --> 00:11:54,612
I'm surrounded by help.
276
00:11:54,648 --> 00:11:57,615
But you'd rather have
Marie helping you herself?
277
00:11:57,651 --> 00:11:59,483
Well, no.
278
00:11:59,519 --> 00:12:03,154
I'd like her to visit
once in a while.
279
00:12:03,189 --> 00:12:05,239
And help when she's asked.
280
00:12:07,327 --> 00:12:08,759
Wait a minute.
281
00:12:08,795 --> 00:12:10,928
She said we were
just going for a ride.
282
00:12:12,398 --> 00:12:16,434
This isn't the first stop on the
way to the nursing home, is it?
283
00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,039
They don't have hydrangeas.
284
00:12:22,074 --> 00:12:24,375
Maybe we should
go someplace else.
285
00:12:24,410 --> 00:12:26,288
Why don't we just get
some other kind of flower?
286
00:12:26,312 --> 00:12:29,147
Because hydrangeas were
Grandma Jenny's favorite.
287
00:12:30,684 --> 00:12:32,650
You have to be somewhere?
288
00:12:32,686 --> 00:12:35,720
Not really. It's just,
this is taking forever.
289
00:12:35,755 --> 00:12:37,466
And I want to go
to the bookstore.
290
00:12:37,490 --> 00:12:39,001
I want to get this
book for school.
291
00:12:39,025 --> 00:12:40,236
I've got a book
report coming up.
292
00:12:40,260 --> 00:12:41,960
Then we'll go the bookstore,
293
00:12:41,995 --> 00:12:43,545
and then we'll go
to another florist.
294
00:12:43,597 --> 00:12:45,374
What, are we just going
to drive around all day
295
00:12:45,398 --> 00:12:46,697
looking for hydrangeas?
296
00:12:46,733 --> 00:12:48,199
Why don't you call around
297
00:12:48,235 --> 00:12:50,868
while I go in the bookstore,
and then if you find anything,
298
00:12:50,903 --> 00:12:52,370
we can go somewhere else?
299
00:12:52,405 --> 00:12:53,416
I'll meet you back here.
300
00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,907
All right, but don't
be long, okay?
301
00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:57,252
We don't have that
much time and I don't want
302
00:12:57,276 --> 00:12:58,793
to keep Savannah
out much longer.
303
00:12:58,845 --> 00:13:00,661
I'll be right back.
304
00:13:13,260 --> 00:13:15,309
I don't hate my job.
305
00:13:15,345 --> 00:13:16,661
I hate my boss.
306
00:13:16,696 --> 00:13:19,747
And if I quit my job to move
here to take care of her myself,
307
00:13:19,783 --> 00:13:21,193
I'm just going to have
to get another job,
308
00:13:21,217 --> 00:13:22,995
maybe with a boss
I hate even more.
309
00:13:23,019 --> 00:13:25,486
Look, Marie,
310
00:13:25,521 --> 00:13:28,422
it's very admirable the way
you've been helping your mom,
311
00:13:28,457 --> 00:13:31,158
but I get the
distinct impression
312
00:13:31,211 --> 00:13:34,696
that she doesn't need or
want the help at this point.
313
00:13:34,731 --> 00:13:35,897
She needs the help.
314
00:13:35,932 --> 00:13:37,364
She's in her 70s.
315
00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,011
How is she going
to get to the doctor
316
00:13:39,035 --> 00:13:40,312
and eat and take
care of the house
317
00:13:40,336 --> 00:13:42,436
if I don't provide that for her?
318
00:13:42,471 --> 00:13:43,938
I should provide that for her.
319
00:13:43,973 --> 00:13:45,255
Don't get me wrong.
320
00:13:45,292 --> 00:13:47,508
I think she's very lucky
that you've been able
321
00:13:47,543 --> 00:13:49,788
to provide everything that
you've been doing for her,
322
00:13:49,812 --> 00:13:51,790
and, and you're very
lucky that you can do it,
323
00:13:51,814 --> 00:13:54,532
but your mother is
still plenty capable.
324
00:13:54,568 --> 00:13:55,767
No, she's not.
325
00:13:55,802 --> 00:13:58,102
Her eyesight is
too bad to drive.
326
00:13:58,138 --> 00:14:00,304
We have a service
here at the church
327
00:14:00,340 --> 00:14:02,485
where people drive
other people to the doctor,
328
00:14:02,509 --> 00:14:04,086
they stay with them,
they bring them home,
329
00:14:04,110 --> 00:14:05,254
pick up their prescription.
330
00:14:05,278 --> 00:14:06,589
We could do that
for your mother.
331
00:14:06,613 --> 00:14:07,962
I could get her connected
332
00:14:07,997 --> 00:14:09,530
with the older
group at the church.
333
00:14:09,583 --> 00:14:12,733
They look out after each other,
and we all look out after them.
334
00:14:12,769 --> 00:14:14,030
No. You don't have to.
335
00:14:14,054 --> 00:14:15,269
I am her family.
336
00:14:15,305 --> 00:14:16,704
Her only family.
337
00:14:16,739 --> 00:14:18,772
And it's my job
to take care of her.
338
00:14:18,808 --> 00:14:21,542
It's my job to
get her in a place
339
00:14:21,577 --> 00:14:23,422
where someone is
with her 24 hours a day
340
00:14:23,446 --> 00:14:24,611
so nothing happens to her.
341
00:14:25,932 --> 00:14:28,012
Maybe there's a nice
nursing home near me.
342
00:14:35,175 --> 00:14:36,874
Where's your book?
343
00:14:36,909 --> 00:14:38,809
They didn't have it.
344
00:14:38,844 --> 00:14:40,478
I guess every
freshman in Glenoak
345
00:14:40,513 --> 00:14:42,680
is looking for the
paperback Romeo and Juliet.
346
00:14:42,715 --> 00:14:44,465
But I ran into Vincent,
347
00:14:44,517 --> 00:14:47,151
and he thinks that the bookstore
at the mall might have it.
348
00:14:47,187 --> 00:14:49,287
So we thought we'd
just drive over there
349
00:14:49,322 --> 00:14:50,566
and then he'd drop
me off at the house.
350
00:14:50,590 --> 00:14:53,240
Then we'll just call Mom
and find out if it's okay.
351
00:14:53,293 --> 00:14:54,275
I'm sure it's okay.
352
00:14:54,310 --> 00:14:55,587
I mean, what is
she going to say,
353
00:14:55,611 --> 00:14:57,106
that she doesn't want
me to do my homework?
354
00:14:57,130 --> 00:14:59,947
Well, I just don't like
leaving the house with you
355
00:14:59,983 --> 00:15:01,277
and then not coming
home with you.
356
00:15:01,301 --> 00:15:04,051
The baby's in the
pram, I'm right here,
357
00:15:04,087 --> 00:15:05,169
and I'm all grown up.
358
00:15:05,205 --> 00:15:06,353
I can make my own decisions.
359
00:15:06,389 --> 00:15:08,890
I take full responsibility
for not calling Mom.
360
00:15:08,925 --> 00:15:11,170
Do you? Because if Mom
gets upset about you going off
361
00:15:11,194 --> 00:15:13,460
with Vincent instead of
sticking around with me,
362
00:15:13,496 --> 00:15:15,791
she's probably going to take
away your dating privileges.
363
00:15:15,815 --> 00:15:17,148
So?
364
00:15:17,183 --> 00:15:18,515
You know what?
365
00:15:18,551 --> 00:15:21,485
You go right along with
Vincent and go off to the mall
366
00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:22,720
and buy your book for school.
367
00:15:22,755 --> 00:15:24,738
And if Mom gets
upset about it, then,
368
00:15:24,791 --> 00:15:26,636
tell you what, I
will let you take
369
00:15:26,660 --> 00:15:28,403
full responsibility
for your actions
370
00:15:28,427 --> 00:15:29,593
and suffer the consequences
371
00:15:29,629 --> 00:15:31,641
as long as you don't
complain to me about it.
372
00:15:31,665 --> 00:15:32,930
Great.
373
00:15:32,966 --> 00:15:34,282
You sure?
374
00:15:34,317 --> 00:15:38,185
You sure you want to
risk not being able to date
375
00:15:38,221 --> 00:15:41,205
when you could just call Mom
and tell her what's going on?
376
00:15:41,241 --> 00:15:42,356
I'm sure.
377
00:15:44,794 --> 00:15:46,143
Okay.
378
00:15:47,714 --> 00:15:50,397
Mother, I don't think you
should be living alone anymore.
379
00:15:50,432 --> 00:15:52,778
Well, I don't think you
should live alone, either.
380
00:15:52,802 --> 00:15:55,064
Why don't you get a roommate?
381
00:15:55,088 --> 00:15:57,955
Or better yet, why
don't you get married?
382
00:15:57,991 --> 00:15:59,640
Oh, I know,
383
00:15:59,693 --> 00:16:01,820
it's because you're not
involved with anyone,
384
00:16:01,844 --> 00:16:03,160
and you're what, 40?
385
00:16:03,196 --> 00:16:05,508
You'll probably be living alone
386
00:16:05,532 --> 00:16:07,030
when you're my age
387
00:16:07,067 --> 00:16:09,917
because you don't have
time for anyone else but me,
388
00:16:09,952 --> 00:16:12,331
and then who's going
to take care of you?
389
00:16:12,355 --> 00:16:13,821
I can take care of myself.
390
00:16:13,873 --> 00:16:16,202
You're not going to have the
money to take care of yourself
391
00:16:16,226 --> 00:16:18,387
after spending it
all taking care of me.
392
00:16:18,411 --> 00:16:19,689
I've told you
393
00:16:19,713 --> 00:16:22,041
over and over, I
can sell the house
394
00:16:22,065 --> 00:16:23,497
and move into something smaller
395
00:16:23,532 --> 00:16:24,777
if you're so afraid of
me living there alone.
396
00:16:24,801 --> 00:16:26,016
Smaller?
397
00:16:26,052 --> 00:16:28,064
You mean, like a nursing
home? I'm hardly ready
398
00:16:28,088 --> 00:16:30,104
to live in a nursing home.
399
00:16:31,358 --> 00:16:33,324
No, I said something smaller.
400
00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,910
A condo somewhere
near a bus stop,
401
00:16:36,963 --> 00:16:38,307
or where I can walk
to a grocery store.
402
00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:39,597
A bus?
403
00:16:39,632 --> 00:16:41,332
I don't want you riding a bus.
404
00:16:41,367 --> 00:16:42,733
Well, we have vans.
405
00:16:42,769 --> 00:16:44,034
Mother, eventually your health
406
00:16:44,070 --> 00:16:45,185
is going to get worse.
407
00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:46,415
And when it does, I'll make
408
00:16:46,439 --> 00:16:48,184
the decision where I go next.
409
00:16:48,208 --> 00:16:50,007
At this point in time,
410
00:16:50,043 --> 00:16:52,388
you can't make
my decisions for me
411
00:16:52,412 --> 00:16:55,296
and I can't make
your decisions for you.
412
00:16:55,331 --> 00:16:59,233
If I did, I'd tell you to quit
your job, which you hate.
413
00:16:59,285 --> 00:17:01,869
Oh, don't tell me you
don't hate your job,
414
00:17:01,904 --> 00:17:05,205
because you do, because
your job is working for that jerk.
415
00:17:05,258 --> 00:17:07,841
You love the
money, hate the job.
416
00:17:07,894 --> 00:17:09,626
I don't want to quit my job.
417
00:17:09,662 --> 00:17:11,045
No. You want to get fired,
418
00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,847
which is why you take off
every week to fly out here,
419
00:17:13,900 --> 00:17:15,961
and if your boss
would just let you go,
420
00:17:15,985 --> 00:17:17,529
then you could blame
me for everything.
421
00:17:17,553 --> 00:17:19,620
Well, if something happens
to you and I'm not here,
422
00:17:19,655 --> 00:17:21,438
then you can blame
me for everything.
423
00:17:21,474 --> 00:17:23,874
No, that's good, that's good.
424
00:17:23,909 --> 00:17:25,370
You're getting
everything out in the open.
425
00:17:25,394 --> 00:17:27,562
Ah, why don't we
take a little break
426
00:17:27,597 --> 00:17:29,897
and we'll reconvene tomorrow.
427
00:17:29,933 --> 00:17:34,569
And it... maybe you could
both come to church tomorrow.
428
00:17:34,604 --> 00:17:36,749
I could introduce your mom
to some of the people that...
429
00:17:36,773 --> 00:17:38,973
No! I don't need your help
coming up with a solution.
430
00:17:39,025 --> 00:17:41,909
I need you to get her to go
along with my solution, get it?
431
00:17:46,166 --> 00:17:48,265
Yeah.
432
00:17:51,404 --> 00:17:52,670
Comfortable?
433
00:17:52,705 --> 00:17:55,439
Yeah.
434
00:17:55,475 --> 00:17:57,353
You know, if Martin ever
moves out of this place,
435
00:17:57,377 --> 00:17:58,809
I'd be interested
in moving in here.
436
00:17:58,845 --> 00:18:00,456
I don't think he's
going anywhere.
437
00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,279
He's at a baseball tournament.
438
00:18:02,314 --> 00:18:04,265
Maybe a scout will
see him and draft him.
439
00:18:04,317 --> 00:18:05,911
I think they've already tried.
440
00:18:05,935 --> 00:18:07,129
He's going to finish
high school first.
441
00:18:07,153 --> 00:18:09,047
He's got at least
another year here.
442
00:18:09,071 --> 00:18:11,472
That's too bad. It's
a nice apartment.
443
00:18:11,508 --> 00:18:13,102
So, what time's dinner? Soon.
444
00:18:13,126 --> 00:18:15,204
Lucy's home and the baby's
awake. You want to meet her?
445
00:18:15,228 --> 00:18:16,794
Do you have any film?
446
00:18:16,830 --> 00:18:18,296
Uh, no.
447
00:18:18,331 --> 00:18:19,297
Can we get some film?
448
00:18:19,332 --> 00:18:20,509
Do you have a camera?
449
00:18:20,533 --> 00:18:21,932
You have a camera, right?
450
00:18:21,968 --> 00:18:24,801
Yes, I have a camera,
but I don't have any film.
451
00:18:24,838 --> 00:18:26,154
Let's get some film.
452
00:18:26,206 --> 00:18:28,372
All right, let me tell Lucy.
453
00:18:32,879 --> 00:18:34,010
Are you coming with me?
454
00:18:34,047 --> 00:18:36,196
No, that's what the film is for:
455
00:18:36,232 --> 00:18:38,327
to capture me seeing
my niece for the first time.
456
00:18:38,351 --> 00:18:40,617
Meet me in the driveway.
457
00:18:42,771 --> 00:18:44,949
Why would you want to live here?
458
00:18:44,973 --> 00:18:46,885
You know Lucy and I are moving.
459
00:18:46,909 --> 00:18:49,221
I don't know when or
where, but we're moving.
460
00:18:49,245 --> 00:18:51,978
(laughing): Yeah, sure.
461
00:18:52,014 --> 00:18:53,947
We are.
462
00:18:56,369 --> 00:18:58,013
I thought she came
home with you.
463
00:18:58,037 --> 00:18:59,236
No, she's with Vincent.
464
00:18:59,271 --> 00:19:00,649
They're buying
a book for school.
465
00:19:00,673 --> 00:19:03,674
I specifically told her that
she couldn't see Vincent today.
466
00:19:03,709 --> 00:19:06,021
She was with him last night.
I wanted her home tonight.
467
00:19:06,045 --> 00:19:08,345
Well, I'm assuming that
she'll be home tonight.
468
00:19:08,381 --> 00:19:11,398
That really wasn't the point,
or it was only part of the point.
469
00:19:11,451 --> 00:19:13,451
I knew you were
going to be upset.
470
00:19:13,486 --> 00:19:14,985
I told her to call you.
471
00:19:28,351 --> 00:19:29,851
Lucky.
472
00:19:29,886 --> 00:19:32,320
I am lucky.
473
00:19:32,355 --> 00:19:33,820
So, you're hungry?
474
00:19:33,873 --> 00:19:35,289
Not yet.
475
00:19:35,325 --> 00:19:36,702
Give me another
chance to beat you.
476
00:19:36,726 --> 00:19:37,874
One more game?
477
00:19:37,911 --> 00:19:39,276
It's just that...
478
00:19:39,312 --> 00:19:40,644
What?
479
00:19:40,679 --> 00:19:42,863
I'm hungry. Let's-Let's
take a break, huh?
480
00:19:42,898 --> 00:19:44,415
We can... We can talk.
481
00:19:44,450 --> 00:19:45,766
Okay, we'll talk.
482
00:19:45,802 --> 00:19:47,042
What do you want to talk about?
483
00:19:48,554 --> 00:19:50,488
Nothing, really.
484
00:19:56,362 --> 00:19:57,961
(door opening)
485
00:20:00,033 --> 00:20:01,710
I'm sorry. I tried
to get here sooner
486
00:20:01,734 --> 00:20:05,603
so I could help you out,
but I ran into a little problem.
487
00:20:06,906 --> 00:20:09,039
What's wrong?
488
00:20:09,074 --> 00:20:11,341
I told Ruthie that she
couldn't go out with Vincent
489
00:20:11,377 --> 00:20:13,556
this afternoon because she
just went out with him last night,
490
00:20:13,580 --> 00:20:15,446
so she went to the
Promenade with Lucy,
491
00:20:15,481 --> 00:20:18,065
and supposedly just
bumped into Vincent
492
00:20:18,100 --> 00:20:20,601
and went off with him
instead of coming home.
493
00:20:20,653 --> 00:20:22,219
What?
494
00:20:22,255 --> 00:20:27,174
I am really angry and I
am really disappointed.
495
00:20:29,061 --> 00:20:30,305
Where is she? I'll go get her.
496
00:20:30,329 --> 00:20:31,462
No, no.
497
00:20:31,497 --> 00:20:32,796
No, please don't.
498
00:20:32,832 --> 00:20:34,209
No, I'm just going to
wait till she comes home,
499
00:20:34,233 --> 00:20:35,677
and then I'm going to tell
her that she is not allowed
500
00:20:35,701 --> 00:20:38,169
to date for a
while, a long while.
501
00:20:38,204 --> 00:20:42,322
I'm so sorry. This
is... really lousy timing.
502
00:20:42,358 --> 00:20:43,507
Yes, it is.
503
00:20:43,542 --> 00:20:46,093
This was supposed
to be a special night,
504
00:20:46,128 --> 00:20:47,678
but now it's just...
505
00:20:49,115 --> 00:20:51,831
No, it's not.
506
00:20:51,867 --> 00:20:55,519
I was going to say that
it's... it's ruined, but it's not.
507
00:20:55,554 --> 00:20:58,289
I'm not going to let this
celebration be ruined.
508
00:20:58,324 --> 00:21:00,758
I'm going to let my
mother's birthday
509
00:21:00,793 --> 00:21:04,295
remind me of all
that she taught me,
510
00:21:04,330 --> 00:21:08,165
and I'm going to
do what I have to do.
511
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,084
Being a mom isn't
about not upsetting Ruthie
512
00:21:11,120 --> 00:21:13,154
and letting her do
whatever she wants.
513
00:21:13,189 --> 00:21:15,889
It's about teaching
her the right thing to do.
514
00:21:15,924 --> 00:21:19,277
Now, I want her to like me,
and I want her to love me,
515
00:21:19,312 --> 00:21:20,511
but I think
516
00:21:20,546 --> 00:21:23,030
what's most important
is that she respect me,
517
00:21:23,065 --> 00:21:27,050
and um... this is just
utterly disrespectful.
518
00:21:28,554 --> 00:21:30,754
Maybe this would be a
good time to give you this.
519
00:21:32,492 --> 00:21:36,293
I made it myself.
520
00:21:36,328 --> 00:21:38,295
You made me something?
521
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:49,240
(sighing)
522
00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:03,887
Oh, you look so nice.
523
00:22:03,922 --> 00:22:07,558
I want to look good just in
case Grandma Jenny can see us.
524
00:22:07,593 --> 00:22:10,361
DAVID: Yeah, 'cause if she's
with God, I want to look really good.
525
00:22:10,396 --> 00:22:14,248
And I want to look good
because, even if she can't see us
526
00:22:14,283 --> 00:22:16,867
and God can't see us,
Mom can see us for them.
527
00:22:16,902 --> 00:22:19,820
Yeah, and Mom is going
to be very proud of you,
528
00:22:19,856 --> 00:22:22,223
and she's gonna appreciate
all the trouble you went to,
529
00:22:22,258 --> 00:22:23,902
because this night
means a lot to her.
530
00:22:23,926 --> 00:22:26,177
SAM: Should we go get Ruthie?
531
00:22:26,212 --> 00:22:28,457
Maybe she's still getting
dressed. I don't know.
532
00:22:28,481 --> 00:22:31,015
I don't think Ruthie's home yet.
533
00:22:31,050 --> 00:22:32,461
Are we going to wait for her?
534
00:22:32,485 --> 00:22:34,518
I'm not really sure.
535
00:22:34,553 --> 00:22:36,520
I hope she doesn't
miss the party.
536
00:22:36,555 --> 00:22:37,521
Yeah, me, too.
537
00:22:37,556 --> 00:22:39,001
I hope she doesn't
miss the party.
538
00:22:39,025 --> 00:22:40,402
DAVID: We're going to
have Grandma Jenny's
539
00:22:40,426 --> 00:22:43,177
chocolate cake, and
if she doesn't get here
540
00:22:43,212 --> 00:22:45,796
in time to eat, Mom
won't let her have dessert.
541
00:22:45,831 --> 00:22:48,566
Yeah, that's going to be
the least of her problems.
542
00:22:48,601 --> 00:22:49,601
(barking)
543
00:22:52,505 --> 00:22:55,489
All right, we got
the film, let's go.
544
00:22:55,524 --> 00:22:56,924
What's the hurry?
We've got time.
545
00:22:56,959 --> 00:22:58,169
Time for what?
546
00:22:58,193 --> 00:22:59,654
We're supposed to
eat in ten minutes.
547
00:22:59,678 --> 00:23:02,079
I don't know... Talk?
548
00:23:02,114 --> 00:23:03,892
Talk about what?
We can talk later.
549
00:23:03,916 --> 00:23:06,617
Yeah, but later everybody
else is gonna be around.
550
00:23:06,652 --> 00:23:08,252
Everyone like...?
551
00:23:08,287 --> 00:23:10,015
Everyone like the
rest of the family.
552
00:23:10,039 --> 00:23:11,566
And what can't we talk about
553
00:23:11,590 --> 00:23:13,491
around the rest of the family?
554
00:23:13,526 --> 00:23:16,593
I don't know... Mary?
555
00:23:18,864 --> 00:23:20,915
(sobbing)
556
00:23:20,950 --> 00:23:22,783
I wasn't expecting
you to react like this.
557
00:23:22,819 --> 00:23:24,396
How did you expect me to react?
558
00:23:24,420 --> 00:23:25,469
I-I don't know.
559
00:23:25,504 --> 00:23:27,471
I didn't think you'd
be so emotional.
560
00:23:27,506 --> 00:23:30,152
Look, it's not like we've been
together that long. I know!
561
00:23:30,176 --> 00:23:32,977
I thought you'd be okay with it.
562
00:23:33,012 --> 00:23:34,244
Okay with it?
563
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,079
(sobbing)
564
00:23:37,750 --> 00:23:39,416
Look, don't do this.
565
00:23:39,452 --> 00:23:40,595
You'll, you'll have
other boyfriends.
566
00:23:40,619 --> 00:23:42,202
I hope not.
567
00:23:44,423 --> 00:23:46,590
Let me take you
home, okay. Come on.
568
00:23:46,625 --> 00:23:50,160
No, no, I can't go home.
569
00:23:50,196 --> 00:23:52,674
I'm not even supposed to
be having dinner with you.
570
00:23:52,698 --> 00:23:55,143
I'm missing a dinner
for my Grandma Jenny.
571
00:23:55,167 --> 00:23:57,001
I've never even
heard you mention her.
572
00:23:57,036 --> 00:24:00,171
That's because she's dead!
573
00:24:00,206 --> 00:24:03,174
(loud sobbing)
574
00:24:05,878 --> 00:24:08,161
Lucy, I really
appreciate the flowers
575
00:24:08,197 --> 00:24:10,364
and all the trouble
you went to to get them.
576
00:24:10,399 --> 00:24:11,715
I'm not sure if you noticed,
577
00:24:11,750 --> 00:24:13,728
but Savannah's wearing
the baby sweater that...
578
00:24:13,752 --> 00:24:15,402
That my mother made for you.
579
00:24:15,437 --> 00:24:16,720
Oh, Luce,
580
00:24:16,755 --> 00:24:20,291
I forgot I had given it to you.
581
00:24:20,326 --> 00:24:22,409
Oh, and the locket.
582
00:24:23,896 --> 00:24:25,362
What did she give us?
583
00:24:25,397 --> 00:24:28,248
Well, she gave you
and all of us Mom.
584
00:24:35,190 --> 00:24:36,423
I know, I know.
585
00:24:36,458 --> 00:24:37,725
I'll get right down there.
586
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,292
I know everyone in
the emergency room.
587
00:24:39,328 --> 00:24:40,961
I'll make sure
you're taken care of.
588
00:24:40,997 --> 00:24:42,179
Yes,
589
00:24:42,214 --> 00:24:44,348
you told me so.
590
00:24:44,383 --> 00:24:45,632
Yeah, you were right.
591
00:24:45,667 --> 00:24:47,151
Something did happen, but...
592
00:24:47,186 --> 00:24:48,597
Is that the woman
from this afternoon?
593
00:24:48,621 --> 00:24:51,889
Her mother was just admitted
to the emergency room.
594
00:24:51,924 --> 00:24:53,768
Maybe a heart
attack, maybe angina,
595
00:24:53,792 --> 00:24:55,942
but maybe nothing. Oh...
596
00:24:57,363 --> 00:24:59,413
Hi. It's Annie.
597
00:24:59,448 --> 00:25:01,682
I know how important
your mom is to you.
598
00:25:01,717 --> 00:25:03,601
I'll make sure Eric gets there
599
00:25:03,636 --> 00:25:04,679
right away.
600
00:25:04,703 --> 00:25:06,586
Uh, hang in there, okay?
601
00:25:06,622 --> 00:25:08,355
It's, it's gonna be fine.
602
00:25:08,390 --> 00:25:10,290
Bye.
603
00:25:10,325 --> 00:25:11,408
Go.
604
00:25:11,443 --> 00:25:13,088
I'll, I'll save some
cake for you.
605
00:25:13,112 --> 00:25:14,545
I'll be right back.
606
00:25:14,580 --> 00:25:15,640
If you're not right back,
607
00:25:15,664 --> 00:25:17,342
even if you're
gone for a long time,
608
00:25:17,366 --> 00:25:19,628
I'll be right here for you
when you get home, okay?
609
00:25:19,652 --> 00:25:21,568
It's fine. I love you.
610
00:25:27,309 --> 00:25:29,460
It's the right thing to do.
611
00:25:29,495 --> 00:25:31,128
It's the only thing to do.
612
00:25:31,163 --> 00:25:32,630
The guys will be back any minute
613
00:25:32,665 --> 00:25:36,100
and then it's Uncle Ben, and
you and Kevin and Savannah
614
00:25:36,135 --> 00:25:37,768
and Sam and David,
615
00:25:37,803 --> 00:25:39,936
and that's nice.
616
00:25:39,972 --> 00:25:42,373
And nice was all I was
really ever lookin' for.
617
00:25:42,408 --> 00:25:43,724
(Savannah fussing)
618
00:25:45,844 --> 00:25:47,622
Don't even think about it!
619
00:25:47,646 --> 00:25:49,123
Don't even talk to me about it!
620
00:25:49,147 --> 00:25:50,147
Don't get so excited.
621
00:25:50,182 --> 00:25:51,548
I was just asking.
622
00:25:51,583 --> 00:25:52,916
She left her husband...
623
00:25:52,951 --> 00:25:54,696
Get away from me! I hate you!
624
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,364
You're the worst
boyfriend anyone can have!
625
00:25:56,388 --> 00:25:58,066
What the heck is going on here?
626
00:25:58,090 --> 00:26:00,907
Can we go home, please?
Please, can we go home?
627
00:26:02,361 --> 00:26:04,895
If you've done anything
to hurt Ruthie, I'll...
628
00:26:04,930 --> 00:26:07,564
Just go away! Go away!
629
00:26:20,179 --> 00:26:23,380
Can't she eat anything but you?
630
00:26:23,415 --> 00:26:25,382
No, not yet. Soon.
631
00:26:25,418 --> 00:26:27,751
Hi.
632
00:26:27,786 --> 00:26:29,653
Hi. What are you doing?
633
00:26:29,688 --> 00:26:30,587
Where's Mom?
634
00:26:30,623 --> 00:26:32,455
Upstairs.
635
00:26:32,491 --> 00:26:33,624
What's wrong?
636
00:26:33,659 --> 00:26:35,442
How angry is she with Ruthie?
637
00:26:35,494 --> 00:26:37,310
Pretty angry.
638
00:26:37,346 --> 00:26:39,112
What's going on?
639
00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:42,565
Hey,
640
00:26:42,602 --> 00:26:46,086
can you guys go upstairs
and get Savannah a toy?
641
00:26:46,121 --> 00:26:47,220
Okay.
642
00:26:50,258 --> 00:26:52,454
We found Ruthie
at the Promenade.
643
00:26:52,478 --> 00:26:54,778
You didn't arrest her
or anything did you?
644
00:26:54,814 --> 00:26:57,548
No. That guy, Vincent,
broke up with her.
645
00:26:57,583 --> 00:26:59,065
She's really upset.
646
00:26:59,118 --> 00:27:00,533
She can't stop crying.
647
00:27:00,586 --> 00:27:02,719
Where is she?
648
00:27:02,755 --> 00:27:04,398
She's sitting in
the car with Ben.
649
00:27:04,422 --> 00:27:05,722
She doesn't wanna come in.
650
00:27:05,758 --> 00:27:07,474
I'll go talk to her.
651
00:27:09,295 --> 00:27:10,760
(Savannah fussing)
652
00:27:10,796 --> 00:27:12,974
One of us has to stay
here with Savannah.
653
00:27:12,998 --> 00:27:14,864
Oh, right.
654
00:27:21,407 --> 00:27:24,074
I think I've already told
you this many times,
655
00:27:24,110 --> 00:27:26,793
but you're never
dating... never.
656
00:27:26,846 --> 00:27:28,323
When you get old
enough to get married,
657
00:27:28,347 --> 00:27:30,597
your mother and I will
pick out a nice boy for you.
658
00:27:33,285 --> 00:27:37,437
Come on, that guy wasn't
good enough for you.
659
00:27:37,472 --> 00:27:38,839
You never even met him.
660
00:27:38,874 --> 00:27:41,025
I saw him.
661
00:27:41,060 --> 00:27:45,746
He's good looking, he's
popular, he's smart, he's nice.
662
00:27:45,781 --> 00:27:47,180
Yeah, well,
663
00:27:47,233 --> 00:27:50,617
you're good looking and
nice and popular and smart.
664
00:27:50,670 --> 00:27:53,286
Oh, no, I'm not.
665
00:27:53,321 --> 00:27:56,123
I'm not nice, just ask Mom.
666
00:27:56,158 --> 00:27:57,824
And I'm not that smart,
667
00:27:57,877 --> 00:28:00,861
and I'm not popular,
I'm not good looking.
668
00:28:00,896 --> 00:28:02,462
Why would you say that?
669
00:28:02,515 --> 00:28:05,265
Because Vincent
broke up with me.
670
00:28:09,021 --> 00:28:11,338
You can go now. I've got it.
671
00:28:11,390 --> 00:28:13,068
But don't go see the baby.
672
00:28:13,092 --> 00:28:15,559
I wanna see you when
you see her the first time.
673
00:28:15,594 --> 00:28:17,210
Got it.
674
00:28:19,247 --> 00:28:20,513
Really, Ruthie, you are
675
00:28:20,566 --> 00:28:24,684
good looking and smart
and popular and nice
676
00:28:24,719 --> 00:28:26,720
and all that and more,
677
00:28:26,772 --> 00:28:29,005
and this guy is an idiot
to break up with you,
678
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,541
and sooner or later
he's gonna regret it.
679
00:28:31,577 --> 00:28:36,580
Just like... I regret
breaking up with certain girls,
680
00:28:36,615 --> 00:28:38,181
your sister, Mary, for example.
681
00:28:46,158 --> 00:28:47,757
Mary?
682
00:28:47,793 --> 00:28:49,376
I don't want to see you
683
00:28:49,428 --> 00:28:52,512
any more than I want to see Mom.
684
00:28:52,565 --> 00:28:55,098
Well, considering you're going
to be seeing both me and Mom
685
00:28:55,133 --> 00:28:56,332
for the rest of our lives,
686
00:28:56,368 --> 00:28:58,180
I thought you might
want to start with me.
687
00:28:58,204 --> 00:29:00,582
I feel really badly for you.
688
00:29:00,606 --> 00:29:04,224
I, I remember when Jimmy
Moon broke up with me.
689
00:29:04,259 --> 00:29:05,525
It really hurt.
690
00:29:05,578 --> 00:29:07,493
So does hearing about it.
691
00:29:07,546 --> 00:29:10,480
Please, don't talk to me.
692
00:29:10,516 --> 00:29:12,594
All right, we'll just
sit here for a minute,
693
00:29:12,618 --> 00:29:15,252
and then I'll go in with you.
694
00:29:15,287 --> 00:29:17,988
And of course, you're gonna
have to face Mom on your own
695
00:29:18,023 --> 00:29:19,289
and then later, Dad.
696
00:29:19,325 --> 00:29:21,803
But you'll get through it.
697
00:29:21,827 --> 00:29:24,778
It'll be fine.
698
00:29:24,814 --> 00:29:28,916
I remember when Matt caught
me trying to ditch my virginity
699
00:29:28,951 --> 00:29:32,186
with Big Lips and then
he ratted me out to them.
700
00:29:32,221 --> 00:29:35,022
Ugh. What a night that was.
701
00:29:35,057 --> 00:29:36,723
I'm already in pain.
702
00:29:36,776 --> 00:29:40,693
Please, no Jimmy
Moon, no Big Lips,
703
00:29:40,729 --> 00:29:44,898
no comparisons of
your life and mine.
704
00:29:44,933 --> 00:29:46,895
All right, if that's
what you want.
705
00:29:46,919 --> 00:29:48,268
That's what I want.
706
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,887
Then I'll wait until
you're grown up
707
00:29:50,923 --> 00:29:52,163
and married to a wonderful man
708
00:29:52,191 --> 00:29:54,136
who you'll spend the
rest of your life with
709
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:55,770
and... and then,
then we'll talk.
710
00:29:55,794 --> 00:29:57,260
That's never gonna happen.
711
00:29:57,296 --> 00:29:58,911
Oh,
712
00:29:58,964 --> 00:30:01,309
sure it is. It is.
713
00:30:01,333 --> 00:30:06,085
Well, if Mom doesn't
lock you up in the attic first.
714
00:30:06,121 --> 00:30:07,253
She won't have to.
715
00:30:07,306 --> 00:30:09,355
After I talk to Mom and Dad,
716
00:30:09,391 --> 00:30:12,459
I'm going upstairs to my
bedroom and I'm never coming out.
717
00:30:12,511 --> 00:30:14,244
I can't believe I did this.
718
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:18,181
I can't believe I chose some guy
719
00:30:18,216 --> 00:30:22,102
over my mother, my
grandmother, my whole family.
720
00:30:22,154 --> 00:30:25,088
We love you anyway.
721
00:30:25,124 --> 00:30:27,424
Come on.
722
00:30:27,459 --> 00:30:29,193
You ready to go in?
723
00:30:29,228 --> 00:30:31,111
I can't.
724
00:30:31,146 --> 00:30:33,046
I need some more time.
725
00:30:35,134 --> 00:30:36,316
An ulcer.
726
00:30:36,351 --> 00:30:38,384
I can't believe it.
She's got an ulcer.
727
00:30:38,420 --> 00:30:39,998
The doctor says she'll be okay.
728
00:30:40,022 --> 00:30:41,766
Yeah, She'll be okay and
then something else'll happen
729
00:30:41,790 --> 00:30:43,673
and then something
else and something else.
730
00:30:43,709 --> 00:30:45,892
I'm quitting my job
and moving here.
731
00:30:45,927 --> 00:30:48,123
I don't get the feeling
that she wants you
732
00:30:48,147 --> 00:30:50,631
to quit your job to move here.
733
00:30:50,666 --> 00:30:52,543
I think she wants
you to quit your job
734
00:30:52,567 --> 00:30:54,412
because she thinks
that you're working
735
00:30:54,436 --> 00:30:55,935
just to take care of her,
736
00:30:55,988 --> 00:30:58,082
and she feels she can
take care of herself.
737
00:30:58,106 --> 00:31:00,006
But she can't!
738
00:31:00,059 --> 00:31:02,643
We're going to keep her
overnight, but she'll be fine.
739
00:31:02,678 --> 00:31:04,177
You can go in now.
740
00:31:04,212 --> 00:31:05,478
Thank you.
741
00:31:05,514 --> 00:31:08,148
Um, I know you have a
family dinner to get back to,
742
00:31:08,183 --> 00:31:10,651
but if you could just stick
around while I talk to her.
743
00:31:10,686 --> 00:31:12,286
Of course. Thanks.
744
00:31:16,791 --> 00:31:20,426
I'm selling the house
and buying a condo.
745
00:31:20,462 --> 00:31:23,897
I made up my mind
and if I need any help,
746
00:31:23,932 --> 00:31:25,594
I'll have the
money to pay for it,
747
00:31:25,618 --> 00:31:28,819
but I could do with
a whole lot less help.
748
00:31:28,854 --> 00:31:30,553
You don't have to sell the house
749
00:31:30,589 --> 00:31:32,005
and move into a condo.
750
00:31:32,041 --> 00:31:33,985
But I will get rid
of all of the help.
751
00:31:34,009 --> 00:31:36,087
See I've made a decision...
I'm gonna quit my job
752
00:31:36,111 --> 00:31:38,245
and I'm gonna move
here and move in with you.
753
00:31:38,297 --> 00:31:42,315
Oh, honey, congratulations
on leaving your job,
754
00:31:42,350 --> 00:31:44,512
but we would
hate living together.
755
00:31:44,536 --> 00:31:45,886
It doesn't matter.
756
00:31:45,921 --> 00:31:48,183
If that's what we have to
do, that's what we have to do.
757
00:31:48,207 --> 00:31:52,542
Honey, life is too
short... Mine and yours.
758
00:31:52,578 --> 00:31:55,228
But you'll live longer if I move
here and take care of you.
759
00:31:55,281 --> 00:31:57,797
Well, that is so pathetic.
760
00:31:57,832 --> 00:31:59,349
After all I've taught you.
761
00:31:59,385 --> 00:32:01,129
I taught you the hardest thing
762
00:32:01,153 --> 00:32:03,654
a parent can teach a child...
763
00:32:03,689 --> 00:32:05,889
I taught you how to
take care of yourself,
764
00:32:05,925 --> 00:32:09,676
and it's very nice that you
can take care of me, too,
765
00:32:09,728 --> 00:32:13,597
but my mother taught me
how to take care of myself
766
00:32:13,632 --> 00:32:16,065
and I'm going to
take care of myself
767
00:32:16,101 --> 00:32:18,552
until I can't take care
of myself anymore.
768
00:32:18,604 --> 00:32:20,871
Oh, Marie,
769
00:32:20,906 --> 00:32:24,708
there's a whole big world
out there... go and explore.
770
00:32:24,743 --> 00:32:26,576
Take the best job you can find
771
00:32:26,612 --> 00:32:28,390
in whatever city
you want to live in,
772
00:32:28,414 --> 00:32:30,479
and then travel,
773
00:32:30,516 --> 00:32:33,266
see the world, start a family.
774
00:32:33,319 --> 00:32:35,468
With who?
775
00:32:35,521 --> 00:32:36,903
Whom.
776
00:32:36,956 --> 00:32:39,500
If you don't meet the right guy,
777
00:32:39,524 --> 00:32:40,902
then meet the right child.
778
00:32:40,926 --> 00:32:44,293
Do what your father
and I did. Adopt.
779
00:32:44,330 --> 00:32:47,013
You never mentioned...
780
00:32:47,048 --> 00:32:48,815
Why should I?
781
00:32:48,850 --> 00:32:50,934
She's my mother.
782
00:32:52,170 --> 00:32:55,372
You gave me a home.
783
00:32:55,407 --> 00:32:58,775
I can't just live my
life and forget that.
784
00:32:58,811 --> 00:33:01,694
Well, you're not
gonna forget that.
785
00:33:01,729 --> 00:33:03,613
I love you,
786
00:33:03,649 --> 00:33:06,127
and you love me, and we'd do
787
00:33:06,151 --> 00:33:08,135
anything for each other.
788
00:33:08,170 --> 00:33:09,965
I think we've more
than proved that.
789
00:33:09,989 --> 00:33:12,467
But you're hanging
over me like you
790
00:33:12,491 --> 00:33:15,242
expect me to drop
dead at any moment,
791
00:33:15,294 --> 00:33:18,528
and it's stressing me
out so badly I almost did.
792
00:33:18,564 --> 00:33:20,180
And you know what?
793
00:33:20,232 --> 00:33:24,300
When I do die, I want you
to remember me fondly.
794
00:33:24,336 --> 00:33:28,204
I don't want you to feel like,
"Whew, I'm glad that's over."
795
00:33:29,842 --> 00:33:31,841
It seems like there
796
00:33:31,877 --> 00:33:33,076
are two types of children:
797
00:33:33,111 --> 00:33:35,178
those who don't take
care of their parents
798
00:33:35,213 --> 00:33:37,197
when they get old
and those who do.
799
00:33:37,249 --> 00:33:42,335
So congratulations on being part
of that wonderful second group.
800
00:33:42,388 --> 00:33:45,021
Seems like it's getting
smaller all the time.
801
00:33:45,057 --> 00:33:47,173
But you came to
me for advice, Marie,
802
00:33:47,208 --> 00:33:50,059
and I hope you're
gonna take my advice.
803
00:33:50,095 --> 00:33:52,062
Do what your mother tells you
804
00:33:52,097 --> 00:33:53,296
always.
805
00:33:55,667 --> 00:33:57,067
And know that I'm here for you,
806
00:33:57,102 --> 00:33:59,319
and our church is here for you,
807
00:33:59,371 --> 00:34:00,853
and when your
mom does need help,
808
00:34:00,906 --> 00:34:02,773
help will be here.
809
00:34:16,955 --> 00:34:19,055
(knocking)
810
00:34:19,091 --> 00:34:20,407
My turn.
811
00:34:20,459 --> 00:34:21,669
Uh, everyone's eating
812
00:34:21,693 --> 00:34:23,705
except Ben. Will you go get him?
813
00:34:23,729 --> 00:34:26,289
'Cause I know he's starving.
814
00:34:31,837 --> 00:34:33,870
I heard about Vincent.
815
00:34:33,906 --> 00:34:36,406
His parents don't think
it's a good idea for him
816
00:34:36,441 --> 00:34:40,777
to just date one
person, and he agrees.
817
00:34:40,812 --> 00:34:42,957
Oh, so he didn't
break up with you.
818
00:34:42,981 --> 00:34:45,459
He just wants to
see other people?
819
00:34:45,483 --> 00:34:48,418
He wants to see other people.
820
00:34:48,453 --> 00:34:49,519
And he doesn't think
821
00:34:49,554 --> 00:34:53,256
that our, our relationship
is going anywhere.
822
00:34:54,793 --> 00:34:56,726
Oh, so you broke up.
823
00:34:56,761 --> 00:34:59,929
He broke up with me.
824
00:34:59,965 --> 00:35:02,031
I really like him, Mom.
825
00:35:02,067 --> 00:35:03,566
Oh...
826
00:35:13,511 --> 00:35:16,946
How can you be so nice
to me when I was so bad?
827
00:35:16,982 --> 00:35:19,783
It's easy. I love you.
828
00:35:19,818 --> 00:35:23,658
You're still gonna have
consequences for what you did.
829
00:35:24,856 --> 00:35:27,057
What are my consequences?
830
00:35:27,092 --> 00:35:29,258
Well, no dating for a month,
831
00:35:29,294 --> 00:35:33,629
and then after that,
one date at a time.
832
00:35:33,665 --> 00:35:38,168
What if no one asks
me out for a month?
833
00:35:38,203 --> 00:35:41,637
I mean, a month sounds fine.
834
00:35:41,673 --> 00:35:44,007
School then home.
835
00:35:44,042 --> 00:35:45,853
If you want to do
anything else, ask.
836
00:35:45,877 --> 00:35:48,878
One privilege at a time.
837
00:35:48,914 --> 00:35:50,613
I understand.
838
00:35:50,648 --> 00:35:54,150
And phone calls are
limited to 15 minutes.
839
00:35:54,186 --> 00:35:59,355
So when Vincent calls,
and he will, 15 minutes.
840
00:35:59,391 --> 00:36:01,875
Why do you think he'll call?
841
00:36:01,910 --> 00:36:03,771
Well, I've noticed something
about teenage boys
842
00:36:03,795 --> 00:36:05,939
from watching
your sisters grow up.
843
00:36:05,963 --> 00:36:07,330
They all come back.
844
00:36:07,365 --> 00:36:10,833
Sooner or later,
they all come back.
845
00:36:10,868 --> 00:36:13,603
Did you learn how to be a
mother from your mother?
846
00:36:13,638 --> 00:36:14,638
Yes.
847
00:36:14,673 --> 00:36:16,573
(sniffling)
848
00:36:16,608 --> 00:36:20,343
Even when I was
playing pool with Vincent,
849
00:36:20,379 --> 00:36:22,812
I was having a
good time, you know,
850
00:36:22,847 --> 00:36:24,881
before he broke up with me,
851
00:36:24,916 --> 00:36:29,202
but the feeling of
guilt because I wasn't
852
00:36:29,254 --> 00:36:32,239
honoring your wishes
and Grandma Jenny's life
853
00:36:32,274 --> 00:36:35,174
just kept creeping up on me.
854
00:36:35,210 --> 00:36:39,178
And then he told me
what he had to say,
855
00:36:39,214 --> 00:36:42,081
and I just completely lost it.
856
00:36:42,117 --> 00:36:46,553
I mean the pain
of being rejected
857
00:36:46,588 --> 00:36:49,623
and the pain of doing
something so bad to you
858
00:36:49,658 --> 00:36:51,625
was just more than I could take.
859
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:04,971
I'm here for you, Ruthie, to
share your joy and your pain.
860
00:37:05,006 --> 00:37:08,541
You'll get through this.
861
00:37:08,577 --> 00:37:09,942
We'll get through this.
862
00:37:17,202 --> 00:37:18,918
Okay, Uncle Ben,
now you can hold her.
863
00:37:18,953 --> 00:37:21,087
Oh, no, no, no,
I-I might drop her.
864
00:37:21,139 --> 00:37:23,451
He's right. I'll hold her. You
get a picture of the two of us.
865
00:37:23,475 --> 00:37:26,092
No, Ben can hold
her. He'll be fine.
866
00:37:26,127 --> 00:37:27,771
It's not Ben I'm worried about.
867
00:37:27,795 --> 00:37:28,872
It's Savannah.
868
00:37:28,896 --> 00:37:31,097
Okay, ready? Put one
hand under her head,
869
00:37:31,132 --> 00:37:34,334
okay, and one hand
under her... there.
870
00:37:34,369 --> 00:37:37,520
I got it. I got
it. I'm doing it.
871
00:37:37,556 --> 00:37:40,406
All right, hand her back.
872
00:37:40,459 --> 00:37:42,258
(phone rings)
873
00:37:42,293 --> 00:37:44,210
Hi, hi.
874
00:37:44,263 --> 00:37:45,712
Hi.
875
00:37:45,747 --> 00:37:47,129
Hello?
876
00:37:47,165 --> 00:37:49,782
Hello, Lucy, it's Kevin's mom.
877
00:37:49,835 --> 00:37:51,567
Oh, hi. I'm so happy you called.
878
00:37:51,602 --> 00:37:52,552
We're taking pictures
879
00:37:52,604 --> 00:37:54,437
of Ben holding Savannah.
880
00:37:54,473 --> 00:37:56,206
Oh, I wish I was there.
881
00:37:56,241 --> 00:37:58,419
Well, you and Frank should
have come out with Ben.
882
00:37:58,443 --> 00:37:59,643
We want you to see Savannah.
883
00:37:59,678 --> 00:38:01,506
And Frank and I
do want to see her.
884
00:38:01,530 --> 00:38:04,130
I just thought with Ben
chasing down Mary,
885
00:38:04,166 --> 00:38:06,533
this probably
wasn't the best time.
886
00:38:18,263 --> 00:38:22,115
It's not as though you invited
us out, not officially anyway.
887
00:38:22,150 --> 00:38:24,817
But you know I want you here.
888
00:38:24,853 --> 00:38:27,553
Well, honey, you're my son.
You might want me there,
889
00:38:27,588 --> 00:38:30,034
but Lucy might not
be ready for in-laws.
890
00:38:30,058 --> 00:38:34,160
I'm waiting for you and Lucy to
have time to bond with Savannah.
891
00:38:34,195 --> 00:38:36,195
And for Ben to get over Mary?
892
00:38:36,231 --> 00:38:39,431
I don't think Ben is ever
going to get over Mary.
893
00:38:39,467 --> 00:38:41,145
You know, you
shouldn't have told him
894
00:38:41,169 --> 00:38:42,346
that she left her husband.
895
00:38:42,370 --> 00:38:43,335
I didn't.
896
00:38:43,371 --> 00:38:46,038
Well, then Lucy must have.
897
00:38:46,074 --> 00:38:49,125
I don't think so.
898
00:38:49,161 --> 00:38:51,110
It's a terrible situation.
899
00:38:51,146 --> 00:38:53,579
She called and told us that
she was going to leave Carlos
900
00:38:53,615 --> 00:38:55,581
and Charlie and
take some time off,
901
00:38:55,617 --> 00:38:57,027
and then no one's
heard anything.
902
00:38:57,051 --> 00:38:59,218
This is not the time
for you to show up
903
00:38:59,254 --> 00:39:01,220
under the pretense of
trying to see Savannah
904
00:39:01,273 --> 00:39:03,489
just so you can get
information on Mary.
905
00:39:03,524 --> 00:39:05,402
So? She didn't
call any of you guys
906
00:39:05,426 --> 00:39:06,487
after she took the transfer.
907
00:39:06,511 --> 00:39:10,796
What? Wait. She called you?
908
00:39:10,849 --> 00:39:12,848
It was a short call.
909
00:39:12,884 --> 00:39:15,268
So she left them?
910
00:39:15,303 --> 00:39:17,353
Apparently,
911
00:39:17,389 --> 00:39:19,000
but she didn't seem
all that happy about it.
912
00:39:19,024 --> 00:39:21,257
So she called you?
913
00:39:21,293 --> 00:39:27,413
Just the once. If she
breaks up with Carlos,
914
00:39:27,466 --> 00:39:29,811
then she'll end up with someone.
915
00:39:29,835 --> 00:39:33,202
Maybe I could be that someone.
916
00:39:33,238 --> 00:39:35,521
Are you out of your mind?!
917
00:39:35,574 --> 00:39:38,124
It is way too early to be
thinking those kind of thoughts.
918
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,442
I just figured, with
Mary, it's never too early.
919
00:39:40,479 --> 00:39:42,156
We don't want
her to leave Carlos.
920
00:39:42,180 --> 00:39:44,258
She's his wife. They
have a child together.
921
00:39:44,282 --> 00:39:45,693
We want them all
to stay together.
922
00:39:45,717 --> 00:39:47,328
Yeah, but that doesn't
mean that they will.
923
00:39:47,352 --> 00:39:49,230
Well, that doesn't mean
she'll ever see you again.
924
00:39:49,254 --> 00:39:50,631
It doesn't mean
that she wouldn't.
925
00:39:50,655 --> 00:39:52,789
Oh! We really need
to find you someone.
926
00:39:52,824 --> 00:39:54,107
I've tried, but...
927
00:39:54,142 --> 00:39:55,508
But try again,
928
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,393
and forget about Mary.
929
00:39:57,429 --> 00:39:59,212
I can't forget about Mary...
930
00:39:59,264 --> 00:40:00,747
and she did call me.
931
00:40:00,782 --> 00:40:02,014
So obviously she's confused.
932
00:40:02,050 --> 00:40:04,149
Maybe she'll stay confused.
933
00:40:04,202 --> 00:40:06,569
I'll admit that she's been
confused for a long time now,
934
00:40:06,605 --> 00:40:08,638
but I find it hard
to believe that,
935
00:40:08,673 --> 00:40:10,022
growing up with my mother,
936
00:40:10,057 --> 00:40:12,086
she could ever be that confused
about being a wife and a mother.
937
00:40:12,110 --> 00:40:14,577
Maybe she wasn't
paying attention.
938
00:40:14,613 --> 00:40:16,996
(sighs)
939
00:40:17,048 --> 00:40:18,726
It's not that I
don't like Frank.
940
00:40:18,750 --> 00:40:19,833
I don't know Frank.
941
00:40:19,885 --> 00:40:21,517
You don't want to know Frank.
942
00:40:21,552 --> 00:40:23,498
You don't like it
that I got married.
943
00:40:23,522 --> 00:40:24,821
It's your life.
944
00:40:24,856 --> 00:40:27,490
Yes, it is, but
you're still my son
945
00:40:27,526 --> 00:40:28,825
and I'm still your mother.
946
00:40:28,860 --> 00:40:31,528
You've practically
cut me out of your life.
947
00:40:31,563 --> 00:40:34,430
You hardly ever call and
only when Frank's not here.
948
00:40:34,465 --> 00:40:36,644
If you want me to
be part of your life,
949
00:40:36,668 --> 00:40:38,679
you have to be part of mine.
950
00:40:38,703 --> 00:40:41,048
And I want to be a
part of your life, Kevin.
951
00:40:41,072 --> 00:40:44,173
I'm really proud of you.
952
00:40:44,208 --> 00:40:47,109
I'm dying to see
the baby. Frank, too.
953
00:40:47,145 --> 00:40:51,297
He loves calling me
"Grandma," you know.
954
00:40:51,333 --> 00:40:54,334
But I won't feel like
Grandma until I see Savannah.
955
00:40:54,386 --> 00:40:57,753
Annie and Ruthie are
in the car because...?
956
00:40:57,789 --> 00:40:59,438
Vincent broke up with Ruthie.
957
00:40:59,491 --> 00:41:02,125
Ruthie's heartbroken.
958
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,677
And I think Mom's still reading
her the riot act about dinner.
959
00:41:04,729 --> 00:41:06,312
(sighs) Probably.
960
00:41:06,347 --> 00:41:07,347
Dinner?
961
00:41:07,399 --> 00:41:08,439
The boys are eating.
962
00:41:11,486 --> 00:41:14,954
Then bring Frank
out and see the baby.
963
00:41:14,990 --> 00:41:17,724
All right, I will, but only
if it's okay with Lucy.
964
00:41:17,759 --> 00:41:19,391
You know, when I had you,
965
00:41:19,427 --> 00:41:21,939
my mother-in-law came
out and spent weeks with us.
966
00:41:21,963 --> 00:41:24,108
I loved her, she was helpful,
967
00:41:24,132 --> 00:41:26,143
but sometimes moms
don't want the help
968
00:41:26,167 --> 00:41:27,712
or the company with a new baby.
969
00:41:27,736 --> 00:41:32,005
I think we have the
opposite problem.
970
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,106
Hi, it's me.
971
00:41:33,141 --> 00:41:35,101
So when are you
and Frank coming out?
972
00:41:35,126 --> 00:41:37,994
(chuckles) No, I don't care.
973
00:41:38,029 --> 00:41:40,245
Oh, you don't want to
wait until we get a house.
974
00:41:40,281 --> 00:41:42,109
I mean, she might
be in school by then.
975
00:41:42,133 --> 00:41:43,749
No, she won't.
976
00:41:49,240 --> 00:41:52,842
I guess if you guys ate,
then Dad can eat, huh?
977
00:41:52,877 --> 00:41:54,193
Mom told us to eat.
978
00:41:55,547 --> 00:41:56,991
Did she tell you you can eat?
979
00:41:57,015 --> 00:41:58,882
No.
980
00:41:58,917 --> 00:42:00,995
It was getting cold. I
think it would be okay.
981
00:42:01,019 --> 00:42:02,619
(door opens)
982
00:42:02,654 --> 00:42:05,438
Oh, go ahead, eat, everybody.
983
00:42:14,098 --> 00:42:16,332
Vincent broke up with me.
984
00:42:16,367 --> 00:42:17,933
Oh.
985
00:42:19,504 --> 00:42:21,704
You sad?
986
00:42:21,739 --> 00:42:24,641
Yeah, but I still have my mom.
987
00:42:24,676 --> 00:42:26,642
Always.
988
00:42:32,383 --> 00:42:33,749
(whimpers)
989
00:42:37,038 --> 00:42:38,655
Hey,
990
00:42:38,690 --> 00:42:40,401
this is your mom's
baked chicken.
991
00:42:40,425 --> 00:42:44,394
Yes, it is, and her
green bean casserole
992
00:42:44,429 --> 00:42:46,989
and her sweet potato soufflé.
993
00:42:48,616 --> 00:42:49,915
To Grandma Jenny.
994
00:42:52,870 --> 00:42:55,004
And to Mom.
995
00:42:55,039 --> 00:42:56,172
And to Lucy.
996
00:42:58,209 --> 00:42:59,642
To mothers and daughters.
997
00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:02,595
Even Mary.